How to get better book recommendations
Name the mood, the pace, the emotional weight, and the hard no. A prompt like cozy fantasy is fine; cozy fantasy with low stakes, found family, no war, and enough plot to keep me reading is much stronger.
Use dislikes as useful data
Books you bounced off are not failures. They explain your anti-patterns: too slow, too sad, too obvious, too spicy, too bleak, too dense, or too much like homework.
Ask for tradeoffs
Book Bestie works best when you ask for why each pick may fit and what might make you skip it. That makes the recommendation feel like a decision tool, not a random list.
Start broad, then narrow
If you are stuck, begin with your energy level. Then add genre, trope, format, and boundaries once you know what kind of reading night you are having.